Nazam @ Ajam, my elder brother, passed away in the wee hour today
He and I were once acclaimed as twins by Mak, probably because the age gap was only a year apart, n that what made us very close during our childhood days
I would often follow him to his Chinese friends' home, either Christopher or King Wah, n sometimes to Devan, for a game of football, playing monopoly or just for d sake of going over to spend time there
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| D Khan’s brothers ~ Abang Nazam me Al Ajib |
When he got a place to study in Mrsm, we would still get together during d monthly trip to see him in Seremban
At Mrsm i would always go to call him at his dorm though i was an outsider
But because I wasn't much different in size, d students there always thought i was one of them
Bak n Mak would take us to restoran Fatimah for d usual roti canai
D roti canai was plain but since Bak liked it so much, that was d place we would go each time we were in Seremban, unless la Mak had prepared something for a picnic by d hill in Mrsm
While at Mrsm, he was so engrossed in music that later on in his life he played in a band as d lead guitarist
I went to see him play here n there, in pubs, night clubs, hotels lounge whenever i could
Nazam too was just like me in our approaches towards our beliefs thus he always shared with me his findings n thoughts n understanding
He had four children, and his two boys also ply their trade in music as well
When he had a stroke sometime in 2014 if I'm not mistaken, it brought to an end his career in music
After recovering, but not fully, he maintained his critical mind pursuing his other interests which were reading n writing
He had an excellent command of d language n i always look forward to his writings
The last time i met him was two Sundays ago
He was down with fever n recuperating n since i was back in Pj, I used d opportunity to visit him with my wife n Nia
We spent more than a couple of hours chatting about his situation n his experience
He even shared a song he composed even though his composition was aided by d keyboard only
He did complain to me that he was having a slight difficulty in breathing but I didn't take it seriously then
We even had a stick of cigarette while chatting outside his house that day @ our last smoke together
Before leaving that day, i hugged him tightly n said that we would go Zafir's wedding in Melaka together come August
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| Our last get together |
But God had decided
Last night he complained of an excruciating chest pain. Adam, his son, took him to GH where he was straight away attended to by doctors in d emergency department
They tried their best but at around 2am they knew he couldn't be saved
His children crowded around him reciting prayers n d kalimah syahadah till his last moment
And this morning where i was supposed to go to Kuantan, i left for his place after subuh n reached d surau in d nick of time
I managed to bathe him, help with d shroud, prayed for him n sent him to his final resting place
I controlled my tears then although it pained me n i still hold back my sadness though tears did roll my cheeks when i kissed him n stroked his face for d final time
It's too much to take in at this time especially so when we had made plan to get together later this month, d five Khan's brothers but alas it was never meant to be
And now that he is no longer with us i can only offer my endless prayer for him
Nazam, please know, that i will miss u so much n sorely and i really hope u would be together with Bak n Mak n Kak Aisyah
One day InshaAllah we will meet again
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| Happy moment @ once upon a time |
